Finding the "RIGHT PERSON"

Somebody once told me that "Finding the right person
is very hard and very wrong? it is best to be the
right person for the one
you love and start from there...you'll always end
up disappointed then
you set standards and define a "right person"
for you...and don't rush
things... coz somewhere somehow
God is preparing somebody for you."

You can never be perfect...the person you love can
never be perfect...but both of you can be perfect through
love and prayers,and your love can be
perfect through the both of you.

But, no relationship is complete without God...
that's why we have marriage - it's a bond not only between you and your
loved one... but also with God.
Our relationships fail not because he or she is not the right
person... it's because we expected too much and we decided on our own...

Let God do the work... you may call it waiting time...
but while you are waiting...pray. Let God guide you always...
He knows better. No, He knows best.

Love is not what you think it is... Sometimes we
mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be
our last.
Because we are overwhelmed with joy
and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love.

Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply
denying oneself for the sake of someone very important in our life.
Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined.
When we think we're in love the first thing we
almost wanted the whole world to know is that
our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us.

We say this phrase "You are the most wonderful
gift from GOD I have ever received... "
After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we
then say "You are the biggest mistake I've ever
made for my entire life!".

Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V- E?
Are you really deeply into it?.
Nobody can tell what love really is until
experience speaks and whispers right into our ears.

Most of the time, these love promises like "Forever, Till
Death do us apart,etc."would end up "Never"
and "We should part ways, I'm no
longer happy withyou! My love for you is DEAD!". Many times we
thought after havingcommitted to someone and
your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree

"He/She ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the
right one to come."
But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is
he/she the right one?" and "When is the right time?" That
made us stick to whom we are with.
Will you always be waiting for the right person to come
and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don't
be in a hurry to get into a relationship because
you can never find love if
you insist that you are already into it.

Try to find time to really understand your real
feelings, to know who you really are, and what you
really want in a relationship. You're right, there is
no such thing as
a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible
partnership that goes along with it.

If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a
small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay
for the damages you have made.
If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last,
don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences
and live like hell the rest of your life. It's really
hard to say goodbye
though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still
have the same feelings.

Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest.
Give yourself a chance to grow and give your
heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the
right decision and you made it all by yourself. More frequently than not,
we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.

W e call it love when we can't leave someone and see
them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, its
just pity. We call it
love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will
somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life.
We misunderstood, its just that we're too much dependent to them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them,
the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave no
one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity.

But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't
something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing.
You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart.
You can't find it, but it will knock
before you when you least expect it to come.
It can make you the happiest soul in heaven,
but don't forget that it also can make you the most miserable
person in the whole galaxy.


P.S.

"Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want,
it's the realization of how much you already have."

May God Bless us and guide us in our quest for our
real and true love.